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做个好爸爸妈妈要会说这五句话 2014-01-04 20:12 周六 #1

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做个好爸爸妈妈要会说这五句话

1、“自己来做决定吧。”
  如果你想让孩子做某件事,或者是停止做某件事,建议你这样说。这么说是为了让孩子了解,他要为自己的行为负责任,从而培养孩子的责任感。

  2、“妈妈爱你,但妈妈不喜欢你这样做。”

  身为父母,总免不了会责备孩子。这个时候,最重要的是就事论事,这样,孩子会知道自己做了一件不好的事,但这并不意味着自己是个不好的人。在批评孩子的同时告诉他“妈妈爱你”,这样做也能提醒你自己,批评孩子的目的是帮助他分清对错,而不是处罚他。

  3、“你其实是想说什么?”

  有的时候,孩子会无法说清自己的感受,只是不停大喊:“我不要你!”“我不喜欢!”这个时候,就需要你来帮助孩子更好地了解和表达自己的情绪。等孩子逐渐学会了解自己的内心感受,那么即使你不在旁边,他也可以清楚地向周围的人表达自己的感觉了。

  4、“你来试试帮我解决这个问题。”

  这是个有魔力的句子,它可以让孩子感觉到自己的行为是受欢迎和受尊重的,让他可以不把你看作是他的对立面。当孩子在做不恰当的事情时,这样说还能让孩子懂得什么事情在什么时间不能做。

  5、“不同的人有不同的需要。”

  当孩子又在跟你讨价还价的时候,你一定要清楚地告诉他这句话。你要让孩子了解,每个人只有在他真正需要的时候才能得到。比如表姐的鞋子小了,并不意味着所有的兄弟姐妹都需要买双新鞋。
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做个好爸爸妈妈要会说这五句话 2014-01-05 21:58 周日 #2

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呵呵,这个5句和刚才那个帖子一共45句, 也不算多,记下来.
本以为孩子大了, 不需要这些话了,直接了当效果好. 现在发现不是这么回事了, 孩子大了,这些话仍然需要父母经常挂在嘴边!
今天蹦带读,我试着夸了几句,没想到,孩子听了特别高兴,呵呵,看来夸奖仍然很有效果呢!
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